Dog Rescue-aholics

I have met a number of Dog Rescue-aholics... 

Like a lot of good things, people can take rescue work too far, often as an escape from other things that have hurt them. I've seen people do it to avoid their terrible marriages, or run from other past traumas. I've seen it break up marriages; cause kids to be neglected; cause people to start hoarding dogs; and some going broke from running up the credit cards until bankruptcy and then having to dump the dogs in their care on others. Substance abuse can also be a part of this. All balance of life goes out the door when dog rescue becomes an addiction. There is a lot to get addicted to: You can get addicted to the pain. You can get addicted to the rescuing. You can get addicted to the attention. You can get addicted to the dog rescue culture and its social rules.

I think there might be a role for an AA for pet rescue to get some people off their rat running wheels. I think this phenomenon is a lot more common than many might realize. If you fear you are going down this route, it is time to become honest about it and get help. You can't keep hiding what is happening to you because at some point it is all going to come crashing down. It doesn't have to be that way. Don't let shame keep you from getting help. Tell the truth to someone. If you need a therapist, then do that. There are ways to do rescue in a way that doesn't cause you to drown.